Is It Okay To Be Jealous?

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By Cory Winn

Well, jealousy is an interesting topic. It's interesting because it's sad. You see so many men out there committing hideous crimes against people just because of their jealousy. I mean, women also do bad things when they are jealous, but we'll focus on men in this article. It's better for you to know about something like this than learn about top pick up lines or something similar.

Like I said, it's sad when you see so many men that are jealous. Jealousy stems from insecurity. Men who are successful with women are rarely jealous. They don't care so much if their women talks or flirts with another guy. The realest of the real men don't even care to follow their women. They do not ask her 15 times a day where she's been. But, the worst thing isn't even when men are jealous for legitimate reasons. The worst thing is when they are paranoid.

This shows women how needy the many actually is. Men like this have even a greater chance of their woman cheating on them. Yes, you heard me right. Jealous men get more cheated on than non-jealous men. It's a fact of life. Guys who are very successful with women have a different problem. Their women are mad because their man isn't jealous at all. What an irony. He is so confident and secure that he won't even care so much if she does cheat on him. This will make her jealous. She will strive to hold on to him harder.

I suggest you do the same thing the successful guy does. Don't follow your woman. Don't ask her with who she went out. Don't show any sign of jealousy. Let this famous saying be your main rule: „If you love someone, set them free. “ That's all.

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lovelypaper Level 2 Commenter 17 months ago

It's easy to become jealous but God says that's coveting. I just wrote a hub about gossiping which jealousy is probably one of the roots of gossip.

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