Do Nice Guys Finish last?

Do you know what the top complaint amongst men seems to be "Why are all the women with jerks! Why do Nice Guys Finish last!?"

And do you know what the top complaint amongst women is? "Where have all the good men gone!"

To this most Nice Guys stand up and go "I'm right here! What do you mean where have all the good men gone? I'm standing right here!".

A nice guy is not a good man. Its not the same thing, in fact, its completely different. A good man, is a great guy, he can be nice and kind and caring, but that's not all he is. That's just a part of him.

Ever met a physically unattractive and geeky girl that you just don't feel attracted to? Will her being super nice and super-kind to you make her more attractive to you? Of course not. I mean, you might date her if no one else will have her, but her being nice doesn't make her more attractive. And see, that's what most nice-guys are like. The "being nice" schtick is the only thing they have. They're not great guys who also happen to be nice and caring. They're just a nice mass of niceness. That's the only thing they offer.

Does this mean a great guy looks like a male model, and nice-guys are ugly? Actually no, most nice guys are pretty decent looking, some are even model-quality guys. The thing is that attraction is different for women then it is for us men. I mean sure, your body plays a part into attraction, being relatively fit is a requirement... But its not the major factor in attraction. Certain personality traits are what make a guy end up first. The lack of those qualities is what makes nice guys finish last. They don't end up last because they're not nice. They end up last because they don't have these secret qualities.

Being great at something, Being driven, Being ambitious, Being passionate, Being somewhat mysterious and aloof, Being Brave, Being Courageous And Masculine.

If you have these traits, you are one hot mofo. Badboys have most of these traits combined with being arrogant and disrespectful of women. Great guys have most or all of these traits combined with respecting and loving women. So work on these traits, build yourself up to where you are a guy that stands out from the rest. Get good at something, and build an amazing life where you are a very unique, successful specimen... and keep the niceness. You will finish first, before the jerks, who finish before the nice guys.